In a certain company an employee went to the Senior Manager
and said, “I can’t work here any longer, I want to quit this job.”
The Manager asked “Why? Please tell me what happened?”
“The whole atmosphere is toxic to my mind.” Replied the
young man.
There are people here who are into a lot of politics and
there are those who talk negative all the time.
Some spend most of their time gossiping than working.I didn’t think I can handle this any longer.
The Manager said,”OK but I have a request to make before you
leave.”
The man asked,” Please tell me what can I do for you, sir?”
The Manager said, “I want you to do this one last thing
sincerely.”
"I want you take a glass of water filled to the brim and walk
around the office area three times without spilling a single drop of water on
the floor. After that you may leave the job if you wish.”
Though it sounded weird the man thought it was just a matter
of few minutes anyways.
He took a glass full of water and walked 3 times around the
office floor. He then came to HR head to tell him that he was done.
The Manager asked, “When you were walking around the floor
did you see any employee speaking badly about another employee, any gossips,
any disturbances?”
The man replied, “No”
The Manager further asked, “Did you see any employee looking
at another employee in a wrong way?”
The man replied, “No”
“And you know why?” asked the Manager.
“Because you were focused on the glass to make sure you
didn’t tip over and spill any water.”
And the same goes with our life.
When we focus on our priorities we don’t have the time to
see all the chaos around us, the mistakes of others, gossip, politics,
negativity etc.”
The fact is anywhere we go we are going to find toxic
people.
Change of job or change of situation doesn’t ensure freedom
from such people.
We should certainly do what we can to positively change
things around us.
But when we know that we have done our best and things still remain more or less the same. We should shift our focus to our priorities, our growth, our excellence and then we won’t be as much affected by the negativity around us.
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